today would have been my father-in-laws 79th birthday.
6 years ago, last week, God called him home.
i wish i had the words, for those that didn't know him, to describe what an amazing man he was.
for those who did know him, i don't need to tell you. you saw it in his life.
he was one of the most gentle people i know. he was soft spoken and kind.
and funny, oh, he was SO funny.
he would mumble things under his breath that could make the room erupt in laughter.
he was a fantastic father. his children honored and respected him. he was stern when he needed to be but he disciplined kindly.
he was a good husband. he loved and cared for mom well.
he put his life into his work. i've never seen anyone work as hard as he did. he worked the farm for 40+ years. he didn't always love what he did but he rarely complained about it. he knew that he needed to make a living for his family. he had a good honest work ethic. he passed that on to his children. i loved that about him.
he was a tender man. as quick as he was to laugh, he was also quick to shed a tear. i really loved that about him. i love that he passed that trait on to rye. a good, tender-hearted man is hard to find these days. i'm so thankful that he had that trait. it was one of my most favorite things about him.
tonight there were a few tears.
rye sat at his computer, pulled up his play list, like he does most nights. tonight he had the Gaithers going. those of you who grew up in the 70's knew the Gaithers. i can still picture my family sitting in our living room listening to them. rye remembers singing their songs in the silage truck with his dad. ironic that the song he listened to tonight was called 'precious memories'.
there are so many times that we comment about how much dad would have loved to watch the boys grow up. he was an amazing grandpa. he was the first to get down on the floor with them. i wish i had a digital copy of dad carrying the boys on his back. it's precious. we wish he could see them now. we hope he'd be proud.
dad loved the Lord. he served Him well.
although we miss him everyday we are thankful for the 73 years he had here.
he lived a good life.
i know when he met Jesus, he heard the words 'well done good and faithful servant'.
that's the way he lived his life.
that's how we'll remember him.